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May. 12th, 2009

  • 3:13 PM

Hi guys...

RIP Ayden Hansen, beautiful baby boy.

Today, 12th May 2009, my baby nephew and first grandchild in the family, Ayden Hansen, passed away at 5:40 in the morning. I am not entirely at liberty to discuss exactly why, and anyhow, I don't see the point... it has happened and that beautiful, innocent baby is gone.

He was only 10 days old.

Born 2nd May 2009 at 7 pm, with warm welcomes of love and joy.

No parent should have to bury their child. No parent should also have to register the birth certificate AND the death certificate at the same time.

I have never been close with my sister, but the past 10 days have been the only time I have seen her so very happy and content. And today was the first time I have ever seen her so unglued and so... broken. Same goes for my mum.

My brother in law even wrote a song for him, his crib, changing table, booties, mittens, blankets, are still all around the house. He was absolutely beautiful, with such beautiful grey eyes and that little cheeky face. We just got back from burying him.

Well... what can I say at this point, right? I don't know what to say anymore.

I just hope that, if it isn't too much trouble, you guys could pray/spare a thought or two for the little soul.

We all love you, baby Ayden, and you brought so much joy when you were here, angel.

We love you. Be at peace and one day, we will see you again.

Wait for us and be good, sweetheart.

Love you.

Comments

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[info]miri_me wrote:
May. 12th, 2009 09:50 am (UTC)
I am so, so sorry. *hugs*
[info]jlostein wrote:
May. 12th, 2009 10:48 am (UTC)
*HUGS* Thank you. It just seems so unfair...
[info]miri_me wrote:
May. 12th, 2009 11:49 am (UTC)
It IS unfair. He was a baby. He was wanted and loved and special and adored. Your sister and her husband - heck, all your family - wanted to give him a good, happy life.

He was so, so young and he wasn't given a chance to do all the things that you all wanted for him. It is absolutely tragic that he didn't get the opportunity to grow up in that cocoon of love - that you all didn't get to watch over him and take pride in his achievements - from first smile, to first steps, to first words onwards. It IS unfair that he's not going to get to do those things. It IS unfair that your sister and her husband have to go home to all of his things and all the promise and joy that they signified and know that all of that was taken away from them.

It is horrible and devastating and I'm so, SO sorry.
[info]capta1ncunt wrote:
May. 12th, 2009 01:28 pm (UTC)
OMG ;________;
I'm soooo sorry to hear about this.
I really hope you feel better soon <33333
*MASSIVE HUGS*
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